The impact that emotions can have on people is quite interesting to watch in each individual, seeing how they react and deal with the emotions is worth understanding, especially when it comes to emotions in conflict! Every individual out there has dealt with conflict in many different forms whether it's interpersonal, relationship wise, work area, school, etc. Conflicts are everywhere and they are inescapable, especially in a world where conflict can happen in the blink of an eye.
When conflict does occur in a individual's life there are always emotions that are present more than others, I know that for a fact, when conflict comes into my life, it's not always the same emotions in every conflict. Conflicts that will never leave me are the conflicts that involve people that are dear to me or the things i am working hard for, so in other words; my family, friends, work/school. Explaining how i feel in each area is hard because each of those areas are different and have different standings in my life. Being that conflict and emotions play a huge part together, i do know which emotions are my strongest in each situation.
My family is the most important thing in my life and has always been a big part of my life, being that i was born into a very loving and caring family that would do anything to make sure you are under great care, it was always a wonderful thing to know i had people there for me always and still do. Of course, knowing my family for all of my life, you could imagine that when conflicts come up in the family altogether or with a specific family member what i feel most is Sadness, Confusion, Annoyance (with myself and others involved), bitterness, and lastly Anger. I know it's weird to feel all those emotions the most, but then again it's the most understanding emotions to feel because you know those people so well (like the back of your hand) and when they act different or you act different and the atmosphere changes from what you are used to, it definitely makes you wonder "what brought me to this point?, why is it like this? what make the sudden change?, What did we do or say that was wrong?, etc. But if it's a different area in my life different emotions come into effect.
Everyone knows that school and work are different sets of emotions and handling because a lot of different emotions come and go when trying to succeed in both. I'm a hard-worker, i have been all my life so knowing what the school load and work load is like i know that when that comes your way emotions come with it. When i'm dealing with school or work individually or together as one the emotions that instantly come with the conflicts is STRESS and FRUSTRATION! Let's be honest, i think that is the only emotion i feel when it comes to school and work. Making those two things work to build a better future for yourself or trying to get through the semester is a challenge in itself and you sometimes physically have to take a step back and realize how much of an emotion Stress is and how bad it effects you. Stress is something i have always dealt with because even when i was in Middle School all work and activities were important to me so when i was lost on an assignment or confused i would get so stressed out and start thinking about how bad things could get from then on or realize how behind i could get. Now that i look back on it, it's funny because i don't think stress ever leaves you once you discover the feeling of it.
Having that special bond and relationship with a significant other can really have a roller coaster of conflicts and emotions. I think it's very important to have someone who can balance it out with you and who can connect on many levels with you. Of course, when letting someone into your life, many challenges come to the surfaces as well but the key is to making it work. We can't avoid emotions or conflicts in relationships because those two things are what makes you stronger and able to handle many things in general. Having relationships is a big deal, especially when you feel emotions during conflicts, when i seem to go through this, i always feel guilt, sadness, anger, confidence, confusion, awkwardness, tension, etc. It takes lots of work to have a relationship work out but i believe that if each person can handle each other and everything that comes with that person than there is no one else that is better. Emotions are important in a relationship and they can most definitely not be ignored! Relationships are a roller coaster themselves so if you are able to deal with everything while on that roller coaster than that can only make you strong in handling emotions in conflicts and knowing how to work through them well but also controlling them to not exceed to a certain limit The best feeling by far is knowing how to control and handle your emotions in conflicts.
On a final note, as i mentioned in my past four emotions and conflicts; they connect in a big way, no matter the size of the conflict, emotions will always be there. It's interesting to think that everyone has different emotions and conflicts in their everyday lives and that some are similar in the same ways because you re-feel emotions all the time, makes the human body and thought process so fascinating. I know for a fact that for as long as i live i will continue to have conflicts everywhere and anywhere and as long as i have a brain and a heart and a body to begin with i will continue to have emotions rise up with the conflicts and become a pack we like to call "Emotion in Conflict".
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