The
emotions that are the most common for me when I experience conflict are anger,
but I typically get so angry that I get emotional and begin to cry, I either
feel anger in conflict, stay calm and professional or I detached myself from
the situation and from feelings toward the conflict. The different situations
that I experience conflict in are, conflict in family, conflict at work,
conflict in the classroom and conflict with friends.
Conflict in
family, everyone has conflict with there family, but everyone’s family deals
with conflict differently, some families yell it out, while others talk it out,
and some families may even just ignore each other. My family I would like to
think deals with conflict in a fairly reasonably. My emotions toward conflict
in family are usually all over the place, I tend to get angry or upset.
Conflict in work, I work as a nanny
for a family that has a couple other nanny’s as well. There is “workplace
drama” within the nanny’s, when it comes to scheduling, and the kids. My
emotion or way of dealing with conflict at work is I am very calm in these
situations and I try to resolve the situation to the best of my ability, I try
my best to be professional and take a very unbiased approach.
Conflict in the classroom, I
experience conflict in the classroom when it comes to classmates as well as
sometimes with teachers. I have had experiences with teachers that do not look
to help the students. Like with my work, I deal with conflict in the classroom
very professionally, in the classroom I am goal-oriented, and by that I mean I
am looking to do the best I can in that class and when dealing with conflict
that could interfere with that I try to stay professional.
Conflict with friends is a big one
since it is my first year of college and the friends you make in college sort
of act as family since your family is not around. My emotions in conflict with
friends are when I typically detach myself from the situation. I push it off
and wait for the other people to calm down and see the situation with a more
clear and level-headed view.
After reflecting on my personal emotions in conflict and thinking of different setting and situations in which I have experienced conflict, I would like to say that I am a very calm and level headed person in conflict. I try to be unbiased and see everyone who is involved in the conflict situations point of view.
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